I can't say enough about the Mothers of Multiples organization. I started going to a local chapter last month. I can attend meetings before the babies arrive and then become an official member after the babies are born.
The group is comprised of other mothers that have multiples (twins, triplets and more). They have been very supportive and have provided lots of information. It's always nice to get information from other mothers, but it's really nice to get information from other mothers of multiples. They have been there and really know what works best with more than one baby.
If you are a mother of multiples or are expecting multiples, I highly recommend you search out a local group and give them a try.
Thursday, March 31, 2005
Wednesday, March 30, 2005
A singleton, twins and then triplets
I found this story on the Home Truths BBC website. Being a twin myself with triplets on the way, I found the story entertaining.
The story is about Julie Ward, a twin. She gave birth to a single girl, twins and then triplets. You can listen to her story here if you have Real Player.
The story is about Julie Ward, a twin. She gave birth to a single girl, twins and then triplets. You can listen to her story here if you have Real Player.
A Whole Lotta Kicking Going On
Yesterday was a really big day when it comes to baby movement and kicking. (I assume they are kicking. I guess it could be arm movements or headbutts.) All three of them were kicking at almost the same time. I can't be sure of this, but I think they might have been playing kickball with one of my organs.
Tuesday, March 29, 2005
Selecting a pediatrician
Today I'm at 21 weeks. Even if the triplets go to 40 weeks, I'm definitely over halfway now. It's time to start looking for a pediatrician.
This seems like a very complicated process. We're not sure of the best way to tackle it. We've talked to friends and got doctor recommendations from them. We've talked to other mothers of multiples and also received doctor recommendations from them. We're going to check with our insurance company and see which doctors are covered. We found an interview sheet for pediatricians on pregnancyweekly.com. Now I guess it's time for us to start calling offices and talking to them. Are we missing anything? Any suggestions?
Wonder if pediatricians give a volume discount for multiples?
This seems like a very complicated process. We're not sure of the best way to tackle it. We've talked to friends and got doctor recommendations from them. We've talked to other mothers of multiples and also received doctor recommendations from them. We're going to check with our insurance company and see which doctors are covered. We found an interview sheet for pediatricians on pregnancyweekly.com. Now I guess it's time for us to start calling offices and talking to them. Are we missing anything? Any suggestions?
Wonder if pediatricians give a volume discount for multiples?
Monday, March 28, 2005
Diagnosis - Costochondritis
I have been diagnosed with costochondritis. It's an inflammation in the ribs where the bone and cartilage meet. There is no threat to the babies or to me (except for the pain).
The typical treatment is a nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory medicine, but that is unacceptable because of the babies. I'm stuck with Tylenol and the occasionally use of a heating pad.
The pain will be worth it once the babies are born.
The typical treatment is a nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory medicine, but that is unacceptable because of the babies. I'm stuck with Tylenol and the occasionally use of a heating pad.
The pain will be worth it once the babies are born.
Lots of pain
It all started at the end last week and has continued through the weekend. Pain. It's in my chest and I can't seem to get rid of it. There are few positions that are comfortable. It seems to be some type of rib/muscular pain. I'm headed back to the doctor today for a check.
Thursday, March 24, 2005
The cost of children
We saw this article on MSN - The Cost of Raising Children. The article attempts to break down expenses based on the child's age and the various expenses (housing, food, clothing, etc). In a nutshell, the articles states that a middle income family will spend $170,460 on one child from birth to age 17.
Here's another way to look at those expenses. This came from an email.
The government recently calculated the cost of raising a child from birth to 17 and came up with $170,460 for a middle income family. Talk about sticker shock! That doesn't even touch college tuition. But $170,460 isn't so bad if you break it down. It translates into $10,027.06 a year, $835.59 a month, or $208.90 a week. That's a mere $29.84 a day! Just over a dollar an hour. Still, you might think the best financial advice says don't have children if you want to be "rich." It is just the opposite. What do your get for your $170,460?
Naming rights? First, middle, and last!
Glimpses of God every day.
Giggles under the covers every night.
More love than your heart can hold.
Butterfly kisses and Velcro hugs.
Endless wonder over rocks, ants, clouds, and warm cookies.
A hand to hold, usually covered with jam.
A partner for blowing bubbles, flying kites, building sandcastles, and skipping down the sidewalk in the pouring rain.
Someone to laugh yourself silly with no matter what the boss said or how your stocks performed that day.
For $170,460, you never have to grow up.
You get to finger-paint, carve pumpkins, play hide-and-seek, catch lightning bugs, and never stop believing in Santa Claus.
You have an excuse to keep: reading the Adventures of Piglet and Pooh, watching Saturday morning cartoons, going to Disney movies, and wishing on stars.
You get to frame rainbows, hearts, and flowers under refrigerator magnets and collect spray painted noodle wreaths for Christmas, hand prints set in clay for Mother's Day, and cards with backward letters for Father's Day.
For $170,460, there is no greater bang for your buck. You get to be a hero just for retrieving a Frisbee off the garage roof, taking the training wheels off the bike, removing a splinter, filling a wading pool, coaxing a wad of gum out of bangs, and coaching a baseball team that never wins but always gets treated to ice cream regardless.
You get a front row seat to history to witness the first step, first word, first bra, first date, and first time behind the wheel.
You get to be immortal.
You get another branch added to your family tree, and if you're lucky, a long list of limbs in your obituary called grandchildren.
You get an education in psychology, nursing, criminal justice, communications, and human sexuality that no college can match.
In the eyes of a child, you rank right up there with God. You have all the power to heal a boo-boo, scare away the monsters under the bed, patch a broken heart, police a slumber party, ground them forever, and love them without limits, so one day they will, like you, love without counting the cost.
Enjoy your kids and grandkids and thank God for them.
The best things in life are family and friends!
Here's another way to look at those expenses. This came from an email.
The government recently calculated the cost of raising a child from birth to 17 and came up with $170,460 for a middle income family. Talk about sticker shock! That doesn't even touch college tuition. But $170,460 isn't so bad if you break it down. It translates into $10,027.06 a year, $835.59 a month, or $208.90 a week. That's a mere $29.84 a day! Just over a dollar an hour. Still, you might think the best financial advice says don't have children if you want to be "rich." It is just the opposite. What do your get for your $170,460?
Naming rights? First, middle, and last!
Glimpses of God every day.
Giggles under the covers every night.
More love than your heart can hold.
Butterfly kisses and Velcro hugs.
Endless wonder over rocks, ants, clouds, and warm cookies.
A hand to hold, usually covered with jam.
A partner for blowing bubbles, flying kites, building sandcastles, and skipping down the sidewalk in the pouring rain.
Someone to laugh yourself silly with no matter what the boss said or how your stocks performed that day.
For $170,460, you never have to grow up.
You get to finger-paint, carve pumpkins, play hide-and-seek, catch lightning bugs, and never stop believing in Santa Claus.
You have an excuse to keep: reading the Adventures of Piglet and Pooh, watching Saturday morning cartoons, going to Disney movies, and wishing on stars.
You get to frame rainbows, hearts, and flowers under refrigerator magnets and collect spray painted noodle wreaths for Christmas, hand prints set in clay for Mother's Day, and cards with backward letters for Father's Day.
For $170,460, there is no greater bang for your buck. You get to be a hero just for retrieving a Frisbee off the garage roof, taking the training wheels off the bike, removing a splinter, filling a wading pool, coaxing a wad of gum out of bangs, and coaching a baseball team that never wins but always gets treated to ice cream regardless.
You get a front row seat to history to witness the first step, first word, first bra, first date, and first time behind the wheel.
You get to be immortal.
You get another branch added to your family tree, and if you're lucky, a long list of limbs in your obituary called grandchildren.
You get an education in psychology, nursing, criminal justice, communications, and human sexuality that no college can match.
In the eyes of a child, you rank right up there with God. You have all the power to heal a boo-boo, scare away the monsters under the bed, patch a broken heart, police a slumber party, ground them forever, and love them without limits, so one day they will, like you, love without counting the cost.
Enjoy your kids and grandkids and thank God for them.
The best things in life are family and friends!
False Alarm
We've had our first scare with the triplets. Around 1am the past two nights, I noticed a tightness across my abdomen. It didn't last long and didn't really match the symptoms for preterm labor, but it was concerning anyway.
I talked to the doctor's office and they agreed that it probably isn't preterm labor, but they want me to keep a closer check on the tightness. I'm supposed to start monitoring when it happens, how long it lasts and how often. That's a bit difficult to do when my belly feels tight most of the time from the three babies. We'll just keep praying that it isn't preterm labor and that it doesn't occur during the pregnancy.
On a lighter note, last night was the first time I could definitely feel one of the babies kick when my hand was across my belly. Not an internal movement, but a definite kick that was felt externally. Now that's exciting!
I talked to the doctor's office and they agreed that it probably isn't preterm labor, but they want me to keep a closer check on the tightness. I'm supposed to start monitoring when it happens, how long it lasts and how often. That's a bit difficult to do when my belly feels tight most of the time from the three babies. We'll just keep praying that it isn't preterm labor and that it doesn't occur during the pregnancy.
On a lighter note, last night was the first time I could definitely feel one of the babies kick when my hand was across my belly. Not an internal movement, but a definite kick that was felt externally. Now that's exciting!
Wednesday, March 23, 2005
Are they taking karate lessons in there?
Last night was bad. The babies were more active than they have ever been. Lots of moving, kicking, bouncing, whatever they could do. How could they have that much room in there? It's a small place and there are three of them. I think my ribs are sore on the inside.
Today's entry inspired by the amount of sleep I got last night - a very small amount.
Today's entry inspired by the amount of sleep I got last night - a very small amount.
Tuesday, March 22, 2005
"Where Everybody Knows Your Name"
"Sometimes you want to go where everybody knows your name and they're always glad you came." - Cheers theme song
We're starting to feel like Norm on Cheers when we go to the doctor. Everybody there seems to know us and that we're expecting triplets. It's such a nice feeling.
Everything looked good at the doctor yesterday. The babies were active and the heartrates were good - 153(boy), 147 (girl), 156 (girl).
They did another quick check on the sexes and they are still thinking 2 girls and 1 boy.
Here are the scans. Two nice profiles and one with a baby looking at you.
Baby A
Baby B
Baby C
We're starting to feel like Norm on Cheers when we go to the doctor. Everybody there seems to know us and that we're expecting triplets. It's such a nice feeling.
Everything looked good at the doctor yesterday. The babies were active and the heartrates were good - 153(boy), 147 (girl), 156 (girl).
They did another quick check on the sexes and they are still thinking 2 girls and 1 boy.
Here are the scans. Two nice profiles and one with a baby looking at you.
Baby A
Baby B
Baby C
Monday, March 21, 2005
Back to the doctor
Well, it's back to the doctor this afternoon. Just another quick check on the babies and me. I'll be at 20 weeks tomorrow and that's when the tighter restrictions will start limiting what I can do.
This weekend the babies were more active than they have been in a long time. That must be a good sign. We also met with the lady that's making the curtains for the nursery. Maybe the babies were excited because we were talking about the nursery decorations.
This weekend the babies were more active than they have been in a long time. That must be a good sign. We also met with the lady that's making the curtains for the nursery. Maybe the babies were excited because we were talking about the nursery decorations.
Friday, March 18, 2005
How could it be any other number?
The idea of having triplets no longer seems unusual. We now seem to be thinking "How could it be any other number?".
Sure, it didn't start out that way. It seems like we went through different stages before we got to this point. We had prayed for children for a long time and the idea of having just one was something we had hoped for. When we first found out there were triplets, it was shocking. Disbelief was what we experienced.
From that point, the fear started. The mother was thinking "How can I carry three babies?" and the father was thinking "How are we going to afford this?". It was interesting to see how we came at the idea of triplets from different angles.
We seemed to move between disbelief and fear for a while. After that ran its course, we just laughed everytime we thought about triplets. The ideas we initially had about one baby started to change and we started thinking of everything in triplicate - cribs, car seats, high chairs....
After lots of different ideas and thankful prayers, we're now to the point that total acceptance has set in. We still get comments like "Three? Are you kidding?" or "What are you going to do with three babies?", but they don't seem to phase us anymore. It seems unnatural now to think about not having three babies at once.
Sure, it didn't start out that way. It seems like we went through different stages before we got to this point. We had prayed for children for a long time and the idea of having just one was something we had hoped for. When we first found out there were triplets, it was shocking. Disbelief was what we experienced.
From that point, the fear started. The mother was thinking "How can I carry three babies?" and the father was thinking "How are we going to afford this?". It was interesting to see how we came at the idea of triplets from different angles.
We seemed to move between disbelief and fear for a while. After that ran its course, we just laughed everytime we thought about triplets. The ideas we initially had about one baby started to change and we started thinking of everything in triplicate - cribs, car seats, high chairs....
After lots of different ideas and thankful prayers, we're now to the point that total acceptance has set in. We still get comments like "Three? Are you kidding?" or "What are you going to do with three babies?", but they don't seem to phase us anymore. It seems unnatural now to think about not having three babies at once.
Thursday, March 17, 2005
We (They) Have Cribs!!!
The nursery is beginning to take shape. We've been given three cribs and they've been set up. It was a funny feeling watching them go up. When you see three of them assembled, you suddenly realize you are outnumbered. It seemed to be a bit more startling this morning when we saw them and started thinking "Hey, that's for our three babies".
We've planned on co-bedding the triplets for a while once they arrive at home. There seems to be lots of evidence to support the fact that it's good for the babies (as long as one isn't sick or doesn't keep the others awake). It seems like it would be more comfortable for them because they've already been together for a long time.
We've planned on co-bedding the triplets for a while once they arrive at home. There seems to be lots of evidence to support the fact that it's good for the babies (as long as one isn't sick or doesn't keep the others awake). It seems like it would be more comfortable for them because they've already been together for a long time.
Wednesday, March 16, 2005
Books on Multiple Children
We've read lots of books on multiple children. Some are full of funny stories, some are full of helpful facts, and some are a combination of both.
There are three books that we've found to be the most helpful. The first is The Multiple Pregnancy Sourcebook. It's full of helpful facts and medical information that you should know while you are pregnant with multiples. It also provides some information for after the birth.
The second one is Raising Multiple Birth Children. This book provides lots of helpful tips to help you cope with multiples. Things like how to bottlefeed all of them at one time and what things are necessary for the nursery. There are funny stories mixed with the tips, so it's a lot of fun to read.
The third one is The Multiples Manual. This book is full of helpful tips. Each chapter covers a different topic and there are lots of tips for each topic.
All of these books have been written by parents of multiples. It's good to read what tricks worked with their children and which tricks did not.
The funniest thing we've read so far came from The Multiples Manual. "What's one of the good things about a multiple pregnancy? One pregnancy and it's usually shorter than average."
Tuesday, March 15, 2005
Baby Clothes
We have our (or should I say their) first baby clothes. The clothes just look so cute in the room we've designated as the nursery. We washed a few of the items to have them ready for the babies. How delightful to open the dryer, start folding the clothes and see those little items. Right now we have the pieces neatly folded away in the nursery waiting for someone to come along and wear them.
Some of the clothes seem so tiny. We've been around babies before, but I guess we've never paid attention to just how small the first articles of clothing are. It's hard to believe they will be that small. Of course, our three will probably be smaller than the average baby because there are three of them.
I guess we should enjoy washing and folding the clothes now before we are overtaken by the avalanche of dirty items that have to be washed.
Some of the clothes seem so tiny. We've been around babies before, but I guess we've never paid attention to just how small the first articles of clothing are. It's hard to believe they will be that small. Of course, our three will probably be smaller than the average baby because there are three of them.
I guess we should enjoy washing and folding the clothes now before we are overtaken by the avalanche of dirty items that have to be washed.
Monday, March 14, 2005
Having a cold and being pregnant do not mix
It's been a long weekend. I've been sick with a cold. It all started during the day on Friday and it's still going today. The worst time was Saturday when I had a fever. Thankfully I was able to keep it around 99 degrees with the help of Tylenol. That was 2 degrees below the triggerpoint of 101 degress. At that temperature, I was to inform the doctor and follow the recommendations they had.
Having a cold is bad enough, but it seems to be even worse when you are pregnant. There are limitations to the medicines you can take. I want to get rid of it as quickly as possible, but I don't want to take anything that would affect the babies. It's a true test of patience and endurance.
Having a cold is bad enough, but it seems to be even worse when you are pregnant. There are limitations to the medicines you can take. I want to get rid of it as quickly as possible, but I don't want to take anything that would affect the babies. It's a true test of patience and endurance.
Friday, March 11, 2005
Famous Before Birth
The triplets don't know it yet, but they are famous. Everywhere we go we hear "Here come the triplets". It's as if we've lost our identity and have just become the parents of triplets. It's funny in a way.
Every Sunday I'm late to church because people want to stop and talk about the triplets. Don't think I'm complaining though. It's actually a lot of fun. I just have to remember to leave earlier before anything that has a definite start time.
Wonder if this is the way parents of celebrities feel?
Every Sunday I'm late to church because people want to stop and talk about the triplets. Don't think I'm complaining though. It's actually a lot of fun. I just have to remember to leave earlier before anything that has a definite start time.
Wonder if this is the way parents of celebrities feel?
Thursday, March 10, 2005
And Now For Something Completely Different
Can you imagine this with three babies? Oh my goodness!!! Don't click on this link if you would be offended by seeing babies spit up. It's a video clip from America's Funniest Videos.
Family and Adopted Family For The Babies
Our babies are so blessed. They have such loving and giving families that are awating their arrival. In addition to that family, they are going to have a large extended family made up of friends that we have that have been adopted as our family.
Even though the babies don't know it yet, they have adopted grandparents, aunts and uncles that are eagerly awaiting their arrival too. How exciting!
Thanks to all our family for all you've done and the support you've given us.
Even though the babies don't know it yet, they have adopted grandparents, aunts and uncles that are eagerly awaiting their arrival too. How exciting!
Thanks to all our family for all you've done and the support you've given us.
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